What Will Prevent Us From Using Pressure and Release on Purpose

Wow this has been a icky one to uncover but man, I feel so much more connected to my tribe with know this topic.

What’s your Schtick? I wonder if you even know. I have a few and had no idea.

What’s the thing you do to try and get your way with someone you love?

We all have one, I believe.

Most of us avoid using direct pressure to ask for what we want. Instead we attempt to manipulate others with variations on intensity, volume, emotion, logic, history, and never letting up (to name a few).

Let’s examine your go-to methods and routines in order to discover an honest expression of pressure. Conscious pressure, an an honest expression of your commitment, is an empowering way to communicate in partnership.

As I study myself, I am seeing how often I stay away from being vulnerable and I didn’t directly ask for what I need. Now I’m learning by NOT being direct about my needs to my partner, I’m not in partnership with them. I’m just in survival mode.